<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>IRL and Social on Souhrud's Static Blog</title><link>https://sounddrill31.github.io/blog/categories/irl-and-social/</link><description>Recent content in IRL and Social on Souhrud's Static Blog</description><generator>Hugo -- gohugo.io</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2026 11:21:08 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://sounddrill31.github.io/blog/categories/irl-and-social/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>sounddrill's day out/DefaultsAndComplacency</title><link>https://sounddrill31.github.io/blog/p/sounddrills-day-out/defaultsandcomplacency/</link><pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2026 11:21:08 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://sounddrill31.github.io/blog/p/sounddrills-day-out/defaultsandcomplacency/</guid><description>&lt;h2 id="fun-day-out"&gt;Fun Day Out
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;p&gt;This saturday(today), I visited an interesting couple of places in Indiranagar which were, surprisingly enough, within walking distance xD&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I was hanging out with a friend: booked a couple of hours of access to Paper Crane Labs, specifically, the laser cutting thingy.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We tried to make a few things like fancy wooden business cards with NFC(which failed because the QR was too small LMAO) and a couple of half life 2 NFC wooden keychains. I was talking to &lt;a class="link" href="https://nullrequest.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
&gt;NullRequest&lt;/a&gt; about this turning into a future fun shitpost project is to make a NFC thing that goes to a website along the lines of &amp;ldquo;Are we half-life 3 yet?&amp;rdquo; &amp;ldquo;No&amp;hellip; Probably not :(&amp;rdquo;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;img width="2560" height="1440" alt="cards for Harshith and me, and also a halflife tag" src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/778bfee3-c432-4c51-adcb-edc9f509c6f9" /&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There&amp;rsquo;s also a card I was requested to make which isn&amp;rsquo;t in the pic :smile:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Then, I visited the local indie web club meetup for the first time! We spent two hours deciding on what handle a friend should pick for his blogs and just hung out with NullRequest.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One of the writing prompts at the end really called out to me, based around bad defaults that life builds around us and slowly unlearning them.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;img width="2560" height="1441" alt="image" src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/0ff54086-7133-4495-878f-c5208a91d0b5" /&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is really personal to me as I have struggled with this for years, but it&amp;rsquo;s never been a &amp;ldquo;secret&amp;rdquo;. The people around me know this and are mostly supportive about it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 id="the-problem"&gt;The Problem
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have never had a reason to &amp;ldquo;go outside&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;touch grass&amp;rdquo;(yes, the meme but in real life). As I am slowly exit my teenage years, I have begun to feel the little effects of this. From health to social life, and more.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is a product of a lot of things, from mostly online 10th and 12th grade, to my current hybrid course that leaves no real time or mental energy for me to step out and &amp;ldquo;enjoy life&amp;rdquo;, as my more normal or grass-touching friends call it. This isn&amp;rsquo;t quite restricted to going outside physically but also being mentally in-the-moment enough to actually care about it, so we ignore soul crushing BMTC commuting.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I know that this sounds discord-mod coded but uhhh I can&amp;rsquo;t do much about that.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&amp;rsquo;ve tried to fix this multiple times: First when I joined my day college, where I met more people than usual(4, family) but then I got depressed as I studied for 12th math retest(really long story, may be a future blog post).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 id="some-improvements-over-the-years"&gt;Some improvements over the years
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;p&gt;But, things have been looking up! I realized that this is actually a massive massive problem a couple of years ago and decided to fix it. I read about Barcamp Bangalore from &lt;a class="link" href="https://mastodon.social/@the100rabh" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
&gt;Saurabh&amp;rsquo;s fedi posts&lt;/a&gt; and decided to check it out. Since then, I&amp;rsquo;ve made an active effort to go outside, visit places, go to local events, and just hang out with fellow nerds I met along the way.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Nullrequest also put me on OpenStreetMaps so I also enjoy fiddling with streetcomplete when hanging out in public xD&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 id="a-silly-takeaway"&gt;a silly takeaway
&lt;/h2&gt;&lt;p&gt;Change is the enemy of complacency and vice versa. Not all change is bad or even disruptive to daily life!&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>